How did I get here?

My dominant archytype is the lover, & I have a deep desire to explore the merging of worlds in intimacy.

I struggled for many years to find my place in the world as a sexually confident and well rounded man able to relate to other woman, and to myself in truly healthy ways.

My twenties were a strange time. I was lost in a sea of addictions and unable to grow past my blocks. My rights of passage into manhood came very late, after much chaos, confusion & pain.

At some point, after one too many relational breakdowns, I decided that enough was enough. 
And I began exploring for ways to fix all of the chaos, & confusion.

And so the work began in earnest.
During this reclamation over the last ten years, I dived deep into the mysterious arts of tantra, sacred sexuality, sacred intimacy, eros & the erotic arts, BDSM, conscious kink, desire, dating, seduction, relationship dynamics, personal transformation, menswork & spiritual energetic growth.

I began to discover my Dharma unfolding.

We struggle sometimes so we can learn how to help others end the struggle.

Thats my role, to help you end your relationship struggles, and embrace a life of incredible sex, alongside harmony, vibrancy and deep satisfaction as you move through your relationship cycles.


A small piece of my story...

MY COACHING BLENDS INTO THREE
DISTINCT YET OVERLAPING ARENAS

Erotic Blueprints

CONSCIOUS SEXUALITY
& EROTIC EVOLUTION

CONSCIOUS
RELATIONSHIP & INTIMACY

EMBODIED MENSWORK

SACRED SEX

HOLISTIC DATING

LEADERSHIP

SHADOWWORK


EMBODIED INTEGRITY & DEPTH

DYNAMIC POLARITY

RESONANCE & COMMUNICATION


RELATIONAL WOUNDS + HEALING

WHAT KIND OF PROCESSES CAN A COACHING SESSION INVOLVE?

Enquiry & journalling 
Talk coaching 
Hypnobreathwork & traditional Breathwork 
Embodiment & Movement practices  
Subconscious re-patterning 
Aspectics & Identity explorations  
Archytypal + Shadow work


During our coaching and mentoring sessions we will be using a range of tools and modalities which could include:

Meditation  
Trauma informed Processing  
Nervous system regulation techniques  
Self Pleasure practices & Homeplay exercises 
Accountability practices  
Rituals & Intention practices 
Lots of emotional release exercises.


I'm a playful man with a very healthy inner child. This makes working with me fun, despite the intensity of what we may work with.

I bring a calm, grounded, deeply empathic energy & openness to my coaching. I have a very good balance between my masculine & feminine which creates a safe space of exploration for both my male & female clients.

I am also a Projector & libra Sun, which means I can read & see people very clearly, which helps me to tune into their unique stories & work on a deeper level with them. 

Whats is it like working with me?

CERTIFICATIONS, TRAINING   MENTORS

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I spent 2021 diving deep into the world of the Erotic Blueprints, & can say that it has been one of the most powerful & integrity lead coaching systems I have ever encountered.

Jaiya is an award-winning Somatic Sexologist with over two decades of clinical research and client observation under her belt. She is the creator of The Erotic Blueprints and the best-selling author of the books ‘Red Hot Touch’ and ‘Cuffed, Tied & Satisfied.’ 


CERTIFIED EROTIC BLUEPRINT BREAKTHROUGH COACH
2021


I qualified with Francesca´s team in late 2021, & am in the process of working towards becoming an Ambassador for the Hypnobreathwork movement. 

Francesca Sipma is a former New Yorker, who after many years of exploration has synthesised breathwork, hynotherapy & visioning into a holistic modality.




CERTIFIED HYPNOBREATHWORK COACH
2021


This year I began my training within this expansive, multi-dimensional approach to relating & intimacy. Damien is a truly unique & masterful synthesist of a multitude of modalities that dive deep into the mystery of relating & human connection. Within this container I will be exploring on a deeper level the conjuction of: human design, boundaries, regulation, attachment, authentic relating & polarity.




CERTIFICATE OF EVOLUTIONARY INTIMACY 2021 - 2022 - DAMIEN BOHLER


I am in the process of completing my qualification for AE coaching processses. This system of coaching techniques has been an integral part of my ability to guide clients through blocks, resistance & painful patterns as we navigate their own unique pathways in sex & sexuality.

Accelerated Evolution is an integrated set of verbally-guided transformative experiences that allow anybody to dissolve inner conflict, emotional knots and stored trauma, allowing the natural emergence of peace of mind, flow and effortless peak existence.
 



CERTIFIED ACCELERATED EVOLUTION TRANSFORMATION COACH
2021 - ONGOING


Over the last few years I have attended multiple workshops & coaching containers with John & his team. They have been absolutely integral to my growth & deeper understanding of sexual polarity & spiritual growth. I will be enrolling in his 3 year teacher training programme this year to deepen my practice.

​For the better part of a decade, John Wineland, an LA-based men's group facilitator, speaker and teacher has been guiding both men and women in the realms of life purpose, relational communication, sexual intimacy and embodiment. 
Known for his groundbreaking work with men, John travels world-wide teaching his vision of embodied men's work and deep relational practice.




JOHN WINELAND - MULTIPLE RETREATS, WORKSHOPS + TEACHER TRAINING - BEGINING 2022


For the last six years I have been following & absorbing Chris´s teachings & transmissions within the fields of holisitc dating, menswork, chi gong, sexual energetics & polarity. I have found his approach to masculine growth, health & sexuality to be life changing & deeply transformative. 

​Chris is an Internationally-known Spiritual Mentor, and Master Energy-Worker. He is an ignitor of that which is real, and an illuminator of that which has been forgotten. He is a reminder.




Chris Bale


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